Finding Out Who You Are

Depending on your personal experience of whether you lived independently before the relationship with your loved one, you may have to figure out who you are now. I had never lived on my own before marriage. I went from attending college to marriage, and had no experience in living all by myself. You must figure out what you want out of life as an independent person, and possibly how to go about whatever that is. I am still figuring that out. I used to think while I was caregiving, that when it was all over I would want to be with another person to spend the rest of my life. Now that six years have gone by, I’m not so sure I do. It would take a very special person to urge me to marry again. On the one hand, I just don’t want to go through being a caregiver again! After 19 years, I want some “me” time.

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I Am A Dog Lover

I love dogs partly because I had dachshunds as a child. I didn’t much like cats, but that was probably because I am allergic to them and sometimes get asthmatic being with them for a long time. Early on, our son wanted a pet, but Jim was asthmatic, and so we could never have anything bigger than a gerbil.

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